Parenting a Boy When You Don't Identify as a Man

Harry asks:

I don't know how to raise a boy to be a man. Does anyone have any ideas?

I am a male, but I do not identify as a man. I don't particularly like men. My friends are all femme males and women.

I have a son who is a typical boy's boy. He is very active and interested in sports.

Now what do you do? There are some really good answer in this CDL thread.