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Wednesday, August 8, 2018

Do you think your family knew about your crossdreaming?


Chloe posted this question over at Crossdream Life:

"Did you ever get caught and no one said anything, or do you think your family knew but didn't say anything, or do you think you were able to keep your crossdreaming hidden and a secret. I often wonder if my family knew as it seemed like sometimes my things weren't as I left them, yet nothing was said. I don't know which would have been better, being confronted or having it ignored. What was everyone else's experience and/or feelings?"

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Thursday, July 26, 2018

The fear of becoming a woman


Cheryl takes a close look at the question of transitioning in this entry over at Crossdream Life.  She writes:

"So what if you're transitioning and all of your feelings regarding transition are most sincere. You’re convinced it is the right thing for you to do. You’re getting positive feedback from the hormones you’re taking. Your brain is less cluttered, the obsession of crossdreaming is much reduced and you feel much happier as a person as a result. You’re now free to simply get on with your life. The desire to transition is still there pushing you harder and harder along the transition conveyor belt. Your sex drive is much reduced and you are much happier being less driven than before. You have perhaps achieved your goal, the quality of life is better, you feel yourself  (what ever gender that is) for the first time in ages.

At this point there are a number of outcomes to this scenario, mainly dependent upon each individuals personality type, confidence and support network of friends and family."

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Thursday, June 21, 2018

Transgender people are being blamed for turning fish trans


Over at Crossdream Life Lisa presents the latest TERF theory: Transgender women are making fish transgender.

Actually, a lot of fish – Nemo included – can change sex without the help of transgender people.

Follow the discussion over at Crossdream Life.


Friday, May 18, 2018

What do you do in your own life to express your feminine side?


Darcy Anne adresses male to female crossdreamers when asking "What do you do in your own life to express your feminine side?"

You may add your comment over at Crossdream Life!

Monday, April 30, 2018

"On Bottoms, Tops, Anxiety, Therapy and a Better Understanding of Myself"

An old thread over at Crossdream Life has been brought back to life.

It all started with Koloa talking about their social anxiety disorder, saying, for instance, that:

"One thing that emerged from the gentler parts of my personality and the unfulfilled need was a bottom sexual instinct. This is something which is virtually impossible to do anything about in adolescence for a straight guy.  Perhaps if I where under different influences or if I had better luck with women in high school, it might have emerged with a different response to the "bottom" feeling.  But things being what they where, with my focus, attraction to, and admiration of women, combined by their rejection of me, lead me to the very basic embodiment fantasy that emerged when I was 19. Basically women had all the sexual power and I felt that --wanted that-- in a visceral way."

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