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Thursday, September 27, 2018

"Traps" in anime, manga and pop culture and the Bowserette craze

Lost takes a close look at how the idea of a "trap" (a feminine looking person assigned male at birth attracting straight men through deception) has popped up in the discussions of anime, manga and pop culture.

Read the post "Traps" in Anime and Pop culture here!

This thread got started due to the current "Bowserette" craze, where a clever use of a magical crown in a new version of the Mario Bros computer game gave it a gender-crossing angle.

Lost's analysis of the Bowserette phenomenon can be found here.

Monday, September 10, 2018

Crossdream Life gets a new logo!

Today Crossdream Life has gotten a new logo on the home page. It was designed by a member and represents the the weave of the male and the female, or – if you prefer – the masculine and the feminine.

The colors come from the transgender flag. If you use the wide, umbrella definition of transgender, all gender variant people are some shade of trans, even those who identify with – and present as – their assigned gender.

This symbol is not meant to be a logo for Crossdream Life only. Crossdreamers, nonbinary and transgender people can use it freely.

Wednesday, August 8, 2018

Do you think your family knew about your crossdreaming?


Chloe posted this question over at Crossdream Life:

"Did you ever get caught and no one said anything, or do you think your family knew but didn't say anything, or do you think you were able to keep your crossdreaming hidden and a secret. I often wonder if my family knew as it seemed like sometimes my things weren't as I left them, yet nothing was said. I don't know which would have been better, being confronted or having it ignored. What was everyone else's experience and/or feelings?"

Read the answers and add your own over at forum!

Thursday, July 26, 2018

The fear of becoming a woman


Cheryl takes a close look at the question of transitioning in this entry over at Crossdream Life.  She writes:

"So what if you're transitioning and all of your feelings regarding transition are most sincere. You’re convinced it is the right thing for you to do. You’re getting positive feedback from the hormones you’re taking. Your brain is less cluttered, the obsession of crossdreaming is much reduced and you feel much happier as a person as a result. You’re now free to simply get on with your life. The desire to transition is still there pushing you harder and harder along the transition conveyor belt. Your sex drive is much reduced and you are much happier being less driven than before. You have perhaps achieved your goal, the quality of life is better, you feel yourself  (what ever gender that is) for the first time in ages.

At this point there are a number of outcomes to this scenario, mainly dependent upon each individuals personality type, confidence and support network of friends and family."

Take part in the discussion!.

Thursday, June 21, 2018

Transgender people are being blamed for turning fish trans


Over at Crossdream Life Lisa presents the latest TERF theory: Transgender women are making fish transgender.

Actually, a lot of fish – Nemo included – can change sex without the help of transgender people.

Follow the discussion over at Crossdream Life.


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